tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post196830510571810853..comments2023-10-14T09:44:21.840-05:00Comments on People I Want to Punch in the Throat: Valentine's Day ResponseJen Piwtpitthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09576108150881254072noreply@blogger.comBlogger120125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-54365425050601634732020-02-10T11:53:00.744-06:002020-02-10T11:53:00.744-06:00I CAN'T WAIT for the blog on the double date t...I CAN'T WAIT for the blog on the double date to the spa!! <br />A bit of advice...I found long ago it's better to have him helping around the house than buying crap for me. Seriously, if you're too tired for sex from doing housework all evening after work, no one blames you!! You, could try training him... a few kudos during sex about the housework he DID do well goes a looong way in his memory. Something like Pavlov's dogs...really, science rules! <br />Also let him off the hook and just buy something *really* nice for yourself. Then Let-Him-Know he's off the hook and should be thankful that you bought it because it saves him the stress of thinking it up, having to remember to order in advance, then getting it wrong! hah. And you get what you want-no hassle, no guilt. yay!) His gift can be you taking him out on a dinner date, just the two of you. (heh, yay!)<br />______________<br /><br /><br />PS: Narcissists will ruin your life: cut and RUN if you're with one.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-29178071671935624792016-02-13T19:59:20.555-06:002016-02-13T19:59:20.555-06:00I know it's all meant tongue in cheek, snarky,...I know it's all meant tongue in cheek, snarky, etc. However, I found myself thinking, 'What JERKS!' I guess this one rubbed me the wrong way - I did find pieces of both humorous. I look forward to the next one! 😊LED522https://www.blogger.com/profile/06815477672369112911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-27874464204247719412015-02-13T10:01:12.801-06:002015-02-13T10:01:12.801-06:00Jen,
I read this before driving to work this morn...Jen,<br /><br />I read this before driving to work this morning and fumed all the way in. I have a stress headache and my chest hurts. I'm physically ill. Not to any fault of yours, but because I've lived a parallel life. This is NOT a healthy relationship. I know you've lived it 9+ years, but I hope you find a way to re-evaluate it after reading my post.<br /><br />I've lived under someone's thumb for 3+ years of my life and I thought I was going to end up killing myself or him. When I say we have lived parallel lives, I mean it. I will never forget the time he criticized me for my $10 purchase at Taco Bell. This was after I had stupidly given him access to my bank accounts. He went on and on for 30 minutes about how he couldn't figure out how I could possibly spend that much on a meal. More of these criticisms went on over the year he had access to my accounts. <br /><br />I remember the time I was exercising in the living room in front of him. He stood there in his underwear with his cup of coffee, not moving a muscle, his fat gut hanging out, "You're going to have great abs in a few months! I'll be right here waiting." Exact words. I'm not even kidding you.<br /><br />I will also never forget the time I came home late from work after talking with coworker friends after my shift was over. He was sitting in the dark, looking out the window and waiting when I walked in the door. I don't remember the words that came out of his mouth, mostly because I thought I was about to be murdered.<br /><br />I remember being pressured for sex, even when I wasn't feeling well. He would use the same excuse. Except when I had a migraine, he would tell me that he could magically cure it.<br /><br />It took me a therapist and a very good friend to convince me that I was in a codependent relationship with someone with classic narcissist personality disorder. It's mental abuse. Manipulation.<br /><br />I know where you're at. To everyone else, he's charming and nice. There's probably been little jabbing comments at you behind your back, but people are too shocked to tell you.<br /><br />He won't see the disorder or dysfunction. He'll leave the relationship like mine did and say, "We just weren't compatible" in order to save his ego.<br /><br />You need to get out, Lady. For the sake of your sanity. Otherwise it will be a slow disintegration of the soul.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18380770742373845486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-49567512693563490882015-02-10T12:53:06.890-06:002015-02-10T12:53:06.890-06:00That made me almost choke on my drink!That made me almost choke on my drink!willowbird35https://www.blogger.com/profile/18279726036560195237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-9036792501437969502014-02-21T17:42:21.224-06:002014-02-21T17:42:21.224-06:00I know zero about you/husband/relationship but you...I know zero about you/husband/relationship but you came across to me as really unhappy and defensive past the point of offputting. Give the man a break! - and I'd advise the same to him. Don't get wooed? Trade the kids for a bottle of nice liquor for a night.. break in that private browsing feature and do some *ahem* "research" to try something new.. not your fault that research may involve wonderfully built men doing fabulous things..<br /><br />I learned as a kid that if I wanted something done *just so*, I had to do it my damn self. So I choose to fold all six billion towels neatly alone and arrange the dishwasher the way I like to avoid a useless battle. And if he does it a different way, whatever, the dishes are still done. If I'm gonna get mad at something it's going to be worth it damn it!<br /><br />I think I'm in the minority here but I can't STAND body hair on myself. Always been that way. Love my fella's furry chest and don't really mind the pubes (I don't floss often enough anyway), it's just the hair on me that makes me feel gross and unsanitary. The only time I slack off is shark week because, well, fuck periods and everything about them.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06999143574223933388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-65296315360941014082014-02-15T20:29:13.256-06:002014-02-15T20:29:13.256-06:00awesome comeback. love, love, and more love!awesome comeback. love, love, and more love!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16215706830120967005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-89539657434611912182014-02-15T20:02:47.142-06:002014-02-15T20:02:47.142-06:00That was amazingThat was amazingAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00706945400936629331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-86390958842576635252014-02-14T02:08:28.929-06:002014-02-14T02:08:28.929-06:00No, you're not alone. This is pretty much what...No, you're not alone. This is pretty much what I was thinking as well.Churchyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03163943851453729030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-71539036735160664672014-02-12T09:44:50.827-06:002014-02-12T09:44:50.827-06:00Oh, wow. You live in my house!Oh, wow. You live in my house!Lorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17761167443652330202noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-61736059547144296152014-02-12T08:55:12.745-06:002014-02-12T08:55:12.745-06:00Omg, I thought my husband was the only one who sta...Omg, I thought my husband was the only one who stalked my credit cards, haha (not that I listen)! And our very 1st fight as a married couple was over the dishwashing arranging- now I let him do it. Someone once said it's adult Tetris & I believe it. As for "quality time" (as he puts it), I told him he gets out what he puts in. If he's not willing to put his back into it, then I'm not getting on mine, lol.madisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09832415654173602685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-88348627454615973372014-02-12T06:56:26.995-06:002014-02-12T06:56:26.995-06:00He is like many men....wondering why women don'...He is like many men....wondering why women don't want sex like they used to, when they were young, no kids and wooed still. My ex used to think I played him, because I wanted sex all the time when single. But two kids later and working full time and rarely having a break, plus the fact, he didn't help around the house much....and never trying to woo me....well what the hell did he expect. Even after counseling, he never did what the counselor suggested...helping out, not harping on me for what I was not doing right. Three times a week was not enough, he acted as though it was one a month...he also suffered from amnesia. But notice I said "ex"....so you both need to listen to each other and come up with solutions. He needs to woo you, so you feel wanted, not just a piece of ass.Sally's Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00761134810632590579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-25166170105043134802014-02-12T06:01:20.665-06:002014-02-12T06:01:20.665-06:00It must be awesome to wield such power in the bedr...It must be awesome to wield such power in the bedroom. Don't break your arm patting yourself on the back.<br /><br />But seriously, you might want to consider giving hubs a bit more attention. Otherwise he may decide to explore other avenues and divorces can get ugly. Don't think it can happen? Look around.Rodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06580938847672673912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-41885973325850312442014-02-11T16:40:35.999-06:002014-02-11T16:40:35.999-06:00I think you should buy your husband lotion for Val...I think you should buy your husband lotion for Valentines....and tell him to apply it the BURN area!!! LOL.<br /><br />my hubby steam cleaned my carpets today.<br />so basically he's like the only man who worked, like ever. <br />and I must show how much I appreciate his manliness and will never hear the end of it unless I assume the position. eyeroll.<br /><br />honestly, I already got 3 babies. perhaps not acting like a 4th might get you more "some."LA Botcharhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09045857399816360885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-458397804298893352014-02-11T14:55:14.610-06:002014-02-11T14:55:14.610-06:00I shared your watermelon analogy with my husband t...I shared your watermelon analogy with my husband this morning and his reply was: "Then just have it outside. It's not as messy to have it outside since you can just hose off when you're finished." I just rolled my eyes, but I thought your husband would appreciate his comment.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10354839305985593223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-86489819703998523202014-02-11T14:46:24.984-06:002014-02-11T14:46:24.984-06:00Oh. My. God. We are living the same life in many o...Oh. My. God. We are living the same life in many of the facets above but particularly the cockamamie dishwasher. With? My husband does a whole exaggerated big sigh when he opens the dishwasher and then rearranges EVERYTHING! And the not putting things like casserole dishes away made me nearly spit! Seriously! Love this blog!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17243795140126059911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-53741661956978137442014-02-11T14:45:48.703-06:002014-02-11T14:45:48.703-06:00Oh. My. God. We are living the same life in many o...Oh. My. God. We are living the same life in many of the facets above but particularly the cockamamie dishwasher. With? My husband does a whole exaggerated big sigh when he opens the dishwasher and then rearranges EVERYTHING! And the not putting things like casserole dishes away made me nearly spit! Seriously! Love this blog!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17243795140126059911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-67910352646997875292014-02-11T13:51:33.797-06:002014-02-11T13:51:33.797-06:00I'm not worthy, Im not worthy!I'm not worthy, Im not worthy!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14702611146850897208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-18881195686272180732014-02-10T20:28:25.964-06:002014-02-10T20:28:25.964-06:00DAYYYUM, woman! LOL
Yeah my husband also has a v...DAYYYUM, woman! LOL <br /><br />Yeah my husband also has a very short memory when it comes to sex. And his favorite come-on line is "Wanna do it?" OOOOh baby, I can't get my panties off fast enough!! *sarcasm voice*Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11206199274363357396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-60439174507157515802014-02-10T16:53:36.884-06:002014-02-10T16:53:36.884-06:00OMG I could have written this to my husband. I fin...OMG I could have written this to my husband. I find "Come on it will be quick|" a real turn off and he can't understand why. I want to be hugged occasionally and kissed periodically. Yup wooing is good. And when he waxes all that hair off his back and chest I'll consider waxing my fanny until then he can live with the Jungle!. You go girl. I hope you get chocolates and flowers and much more.Jane Steinbackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00961987802514876935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-47852750087324044732014-02-10T13:45:07.446-06:002014-02-10T13:45:07.446-06:00"It's a lot like the quality time you giv..."It's a lot like the quality time you give me at night when I put the kids to bed by myself, read to them, and talk to them. Thank you."<br />this was said so perfectly i don't even have anything to add.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02784098779670906858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-79851873420643517702014-02-10T12:57:05.602-06:002014-02-10T12:57:05.602-06:00Cameron Diaz wrote a book about loving your body, ...Cameron Diaz wrote a book about loving your body, and she thinks you shouldn't trim.She actually said its a beautiful wrapping for the gift you are giving your man. I'm taking her advice and only shave what sticks out of my bathing suit and only if I'm gonna be swimming. Same with shaving my legs. Only if I'm gonna wear shorts or go swimming. If we weren't meant to have body hair God wouldn't have given it to us.:)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14955642682460717148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-22074562357693601482014-02-10T12:41:41.605-06:002014-02-10T12:41:41.605-06:00You guys need to take this show on the road.You guys need to take this show on the road.ercatalanohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06806023346542467987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-64104757334346606102013-02-13T20:30:47.071-06:002013-02-13T20:30:47.071-06:00Omg, yes. My hubby THINKS his penis is huge. He ca...Omg, yes. My hubby THINKS his penis is huge. He calls it "the hammer" pfft. yea...right.The Get Real Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09095795279135325587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-27057548310432707442013-02-13T11:19:32.203-06:002013-02-13T11:19:32.203-06:00You are the BOMB!!! You are my hero!! Love it!!You are the BOMB!!! You are my hero!! Love it!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5984487997306130330.post-55096472120002137332013-02-13T10:49:43.651-06:002013-02-13T10:49:43.651-06:00Wow... From my brain to your blog... I can't b...Wow... From my brain to your blog... I can't believe there are others out there like hubs and myself?! I swear I was reading my own thoughts and hubby's as well! And as you I say I don't "want" anything but I friggin deserve it... wonder if he's figured that out yet... We'll wait till BJ day (march 14th... yes it's real, google it) and see how he feels when he gets "nothing".Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00478516425308671069noreply@blogger.com